“Men are afraid of strong women” – Have you ever received such an answer when you said something like “I dont want my woman to make more money than I do” or “I dont like it when she thinks she could tell me what to do”?
You will face those problems if you do not know how to handle a strong woman. What is a strong woman anyways? She is not someone who is more muscular than you are (although in some situations it might be the case) but rather mentally and socially on a higher level than the “common” girl. She usually knows where she stands in her job and she aims a higher position. She is generally well-educated and sophisticated. A huge life experience baggage is surely available.
WHY ARE RELATIONSHIPS WITH STRONG WOMEN DOOMED?
The problem often are not the mentioned women but the men who try to find a way to be with them. To handle a strong woman you have got to be at least as strong as she is.
She is probably in a boss-position. That means that she is used to boss around on a daily basis. In order to make her business (or someone’s business that she manages or has a major responsibility level) run she must be strict and consequent. She wont accept weakness and failure.
Hence after she comes home from work it is going to be your job to help her switch from boss-role to lovely-baby-girl-role of yours. And you gotta do it quick. Right at the door when she enters the house. Show her that from now on until the next morning there is nothing she must take care of (except for her man). Take her cell and turn it off, open a bottle of wine and tell her your plans for tonight. Make clear to her that now she is with you and you are her man who will take care of her.
DONT LET HER THINK SHE IS YOUR BOSS
That battle is very short and it is right in the beginning of your relationship. If you loose it, it is going to be very difficult to obtain a new role in that particular relationship. From the first second on you must show her that she – regardless of her position at work or in society – is not your boss.
If you manage it you will see that having a strong woman at your side is a blessing as long as she accepts you as the leader of that two-person-team (your partnership). She will destroy everyone who might attempt to harm you or your own small world because she knows that out there there are not many man who can tame her…
Cheers
Max
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